In My eyes this is a normal thing... In a real committed relationship[ there should be no "mine" or "yours" it is "ours"... I believe this holds true to for money, debt, and children.
agree. when u say the words i do u get on the bandwagon for the long hall. what is urs is theirs and what is theirs is your. its a 'we' after those words r said
i deffinatly agree with this. its not just mine or yours is ours just like you said its also not me or you its we. thats what a relationship should be.
i agree with what your all saying. but then down the road you never know what could happen. at the heat of the moment you think your going to last forever ten years later it all changes. its nice to say that whats yours is mine and mine is yours but sometimes it could cost ya majorly.
their is alot of reasons for devorices! debt is just one of them but if u agree to be with someone you need to stick with them to many people now a days just throw every problem away and dont try to work it out
A person obviously has no heart if they don't help out their spouse because of money. Every couple goes through hard times but couples that truly love each other make it through it.
If you are already married and become in debt for reasons that couldn't be avoided then you shouldn't let that affect your marriage. However if you are dating someone and they are up to their eyeballs in debt you should definitely think twice about whether or not this is the person you really want to spend the rest of your life with.
Money is such a problem yet we can't live without it. I agree with these two people, if you get married it is not longer mine and yours, it is ours. It would be easier to pay off debt with two people instead of one. Couples should do things together and share and realize that money is not what keeps a relationship going. Money should not be the reason to end a relationship.
it shouldn't cost so much to go to collage. there needs to be more funding from government to help get people into the work force. so they can pay taxes
To for most people they get married to fast and they never fully understand each other or they can’t fully commit to the relationship. Love is not something you fine in most relationships these days and that’s a sad thing.
I think if your already married and you end up going in debt that the couple should try to take the time and figure it out instead of giving up on the marriage but if your just dating and someone is in deep debt i probably would not marry that person for along while.
It all depends on the people in the relationship. If you just know it's meant to be then put it all together but you should still have a plan for what you would do down the road if you ever did split up.
If your in a committed relationship there is no mine or yours...you guys share each and everything you have it should be "ours" Your problems are mine and mine are yours. If you love each other enough you should want to help one another out and show the appreciation if your significant other is willing to help you with a problem like this.
In My eyes this is a normal thing... In a real committed relationship[ there should be no "mine" or "yours" it is "ours"... I believe this holds true to for money, debt, and children.
ReplyDeleteagree. when u say the words i do u get on the bandwagon for the long hall. what is urs is theirs and what is theirs is your. its a 'we' after those words r said
DeleteI agree also if you are in it for love it should be a yours type of agreement.
Deletei deffinatly agree with this. its not just mine or yours is ours just like you said its also not me or you its we. thats what a relationship should be.
Deletei agree with this also
Deletei agree with what your all saying. but then down the road you never know what could happen. at the heat of the moment you think your going to last forever ten years later it all changes. its nice to say that whats yours is mine and mine is yours but sometimes it could cost ya majorly.
ReplyDeletetheir is alot of reasons for devorices! debt is just one of them but if u agree to be with someone you need to stick with them to many people now a days just throw every problem away and dont try to work it out
ReplyDeleteDebt should not decide weather or not you love someone if it is then you are a very shallow person.
ReplyDeleteI think if you really love or care for someone it shouldn't matter if they are in debt. maybe you could help them get out of debt..
ReplyDeletei think that too joy
DeleteA person obviously has no heart if they don't help out their spouse because of money. Every couple goes through hard times but couples that truly love each other make it through it.
ReplyDeleteIf you are already married and become in debt for reasons that couldn't be avoided then you shouldn't let that affect your marriage. However if you are dating someone and they are up to their eyeballs in debt you should definitely think twice about whether or not this is the person you really want to spend the rest of your life with.
ReplyDeletewe are in so dept at China and Russia in every way I'll clam it and we don't have
ReplyDeleteMoney is such a problem yet we can't live without it. I agree with these two people, if you get married it is not longer mine and yours, it is ours. It would be easier to pay off debt with two people instead of one. Couples should do things together and share and realize that money is not what keeps a relationship going. Money should not be the reason to end a relationship.
ReplyDeleteit shouldn't cost so much to go to collage. there needs to be more funding from government to help get people into the work force. so they can pay taxes
ReplyDeleteTo for most people they get married to fast and they never fully understand each other or they can’t fully commit to the relationship. Love is not something you fine in most relationships these days and that’s a sad thing.
ReplyDeleteI think if your already married and you end up going in debt that the couple should try to take the time and figure it out instead of giving up on the marriage but if your just dating and someone is in deep debt i probably would not marry that person for along while.
ReplyDeleteyes i agree with you tami tagtow
DeleteIt all depends on the people in the relationship. If you just know it's meant to be then put it all together but you should still have a plan for what you would do down the road if you ever did split up.
ReplyDeleteIf your in a committed relationship there is no mine or yours...you guys share each and everything you have it should be "ours" Your problems are mine and mine are yours. If you love each other enough you should want to help one another out and show the appreciation if your significant other is willing to help you with a problem like this.
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