I would have to say that if your in a relationship and you have to hide something from you mate or spouse its obviously wrong. It doesnt have to be physical it can be through text because if its something that should be said to there mate shouldnt be said to somebody else. people need to realize what they do affect the other person and should put your self in their shoes before doing. The saying goes one thing leads to another and that could be just texting but could lead to something more than just a text.
I don't think that thoughts count as cheating. You cannot control that first thought. The saying that thoughts lead to actions is true, but if you are a mature person, you can control your actions.
Its sometimes hard to control your thoughts and thats okay because mature people can control their actions. But if you or someone else is in a relationship and you or they are being unfaithfull to your partner even by sending messages, I don't believe that is okay.
i dont think that if you think of something its wrong because you cant help but to think of the things you do and if your spouse thinks that way they probably dont even trust you to begin with.
i think that if you are in a relaionship its is okay to talk to other people (like haveing friends) but if you are trying to hide stuff and keep thinking about wanting to do something with someone else your probably not in a healthy relationship. but if you are doing other stuff besides sex that is called cheating also.
If your dating someone and have the opposite sex as friends its fine but only friends if your talking about sexual things and trying to hide it from your partern than you shouldn't be in a relationship becase it's not healthy. talking/texting/hanging out and ect if your doing that stuff with another girl and your girlfriend or wife cant come with or see what who or what your talking about with someone than you probly shouldn't be in a relationship.
I think unfaithfulness comes from people who cant be trusted always lying and sneeking around. I think you can get away with it more through txt msgs these days.
I agree with the last comment on the article, that is has to do with where your thoughts are. You can be talking and flirting with someone a lot and not have any physical contact but at the end of the day if that other person is all you can think about you're in trouble
I agree, if you want to be unfaithful you can simply do it over text message or email. That is not okay.
ReplyDeleteIf you're sneaking around and lying about being somewhere with someone i think that's the beginning of unfaithfulness
ReplyDeleteI would have to say that if your in a relationship and you have to hide something from you mate or spouse its obviously wrong. It doesnt have to be physical it can be through text because if its something that should be said to there mate shouldnt be said to somebody else. people need to realize what they do affect the other person and should put your self in their shoes before doing. The saying goes one thing leads to another and that could be just texting but could lead to something more than just a text.
ReplyDeleteAdultry or "unfaithfulness" begins when you think about. You start to stray.
ReplyDeleteI don't think that thoughts count as cheating. You cannot control that first thought. The saying that thoughts lead to actions is true, but if you are a mature person, you can control your actions.
ReplyDeletei agree that you can be unfaithful in other ways. it doenst count as cheating but its close
ReplyDeletethoughts don't necessarily count but your actions definatly do
ReplyDeleteInfidelity doesn't need to be entirely physical.
ReplyDeleteIt's more of the thought that "hmm...I want to fool around and generally not care."
But is that thought itself cheating? If I think about someone else when I am in a relationship, is it cheating?
DeleteDepends on how you are thinking about that person.
DeleteI don't agree with this at all. Texting and talking to someone doesn't mean you're in a relationship with them or cheating.
ReplyDeleteYou can be unfaithful so many different ways... lying can cause even someone to be unfaithful, not just sex.
ReplyDeleteIts sometimes hard to control your thoughts and thats okay because mature people can control their actions. But if you or someone else is in a relationship and you or they are being unfaithfull to your partner even by sending messages, I don't believe that is okay.
ReplyDeleteTexting and e-mailing dosn't mean anything, depending on what your saying and stuff.
ReplyDeletethe thought is something that should be counted but an action would weigh more in the situation
ReplyDeleteunfaithfulness is something that is hard to be described because almost everyone has a different veiw on things!
ReplyDeletejust because you texting them or talking to them in person or just hanging out it's not cheating at all. Your not doing anything.
ReplyDeletei dont think that if you think of something its wrong because you cant help but to think of the things you do and if your spouse thinks that way they probably dont even trust you to begin with.
ReplyDeletei think that if you are in a relaionship its is okay to talk to other people (like haveing friends) but if you are trying to hide stuff and keep thinking about wanting to do something with someone else your probably not in a healthy relationship. but if you are doing other stuff besides sex that is called cheating also.
ReplyDeleteIf your dating someone and have the opposite sex as friends its fine but only friends if your talking about sexual things and trying to hide it from your partern than you shouldn't be in a relationship becase it's not healthy. talking/texting/hanging out and ect if your doing that stuff with another girl and your girlfriend or wife cant come with or see what who or what your talking about with someone than you probly shouldn't be in a relationship.
ReplyDeleteI think unfaithfulness comes from people who cant be trusted always lying and sneeking around. I think you can get away with it more through txt msgs these days.
ReplyDeleteI think that if someone is in a relationship, it is consider cheating.
ReplyDeleteI agree with the last comment on the article, that is has to do with where your thoughts are. You can be talking and flirting with someone a lot and not have any physical contact but at the end of the day if that other person is all you can think about you're in trouble
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